So stop, take a deep breath and enjoy the rush for what it is. But don’t underestimate what you’re getting in return.
There is something Americans find exquisitely irresistible about Italians.Let me fill you in on a little something girls; we don’t need to be an expert on dating rules to be great at dating!I made the mistake for years of just thinking that I was bad at dating rules.Play hooky every now and then and remember that a long day of work doesn’t feel as gratifying when you have no one to come home to. The Definition of Monogamy: There is a difference between someone being your lover and someone being your slave; Americans have a hard time grasping that. A Life Outside Your Relationship: What makes Italians so attractive isn’t just the passion for love; it’s their passion for all things ‘life.’ While in your head you see you and your new lover doing everything attached at the hip, you don’t realize this is disaster brewing.The jealousy factor is much too prominent amongst American relationships, turning most free time together into a battle of defense: “I did not sleep with the fucking postman, drop it! Get a life, pursue your dreams; there is nothing sexier than someone with their own ambitions.We have to work to survive, but when you chose it over the rest of your life, be prepared to face the consequences.(Like walking in on your wife sleeping with the pool boy).One of my main rules is "don't date someone you wouldn't marry." It's my biggest standard.It narrows down people that are potentially boyfriend material, but it also narrows down amount of heartbreak.The acts of falling in love and falling in lust are facing constant hurdles; there’s a constant pressure of getting to that white picket fence and having to reevaluate each step towards it to ensure efficiency and maximum speed. It’s no wonder the Europeans’ way of life is so much more fucking appealing. Living to Work Vs Working to Live: This work ethic Americans are so proud of is ruining lives as we speak.Every time work takes precedence over your lover, the flame dies a little.