Should age matter when dating
Many women who date younger men, whatever the age gap may be, find that they have the unfortunate label of “cougar” attached to them.
It can give new meaning to the phrase, “Rise and shout, the Cougars are out!
No matter how much you love your grandma, no 21-year-old wants to be stuck with an eighty-year-old who just wants to sit at home and watch reruns of .
Think back to your own experiences with your brothers and sisters.While a little sister two years younger than you seems completely annoying when you are seven, but 10 years down the road, she seems far less immature.The other beauty about becoming more secure in our identities is that suddenly, society's judgments don't matter as much to us.Now that I am in my 30s, a five-year gap matters even less.Sadly, this is not necessarily so, and there tends to be more of an unfortunate stigma attached to older women dating young men.But remember: every person you date comes with baggage.All you have to ask yourself is, "Am I willing to carry their baggage for the full 26.2 miles?When I was 26 years old, I dated a girl who was five years younger than me.This was not a big, earth-shattering deal for either of us.Not long ago, I read a biography of Church President John Taylor and learned that his first wife, Leonora Cannon Taylor, was 12 years older than he was!In other words: A few years really shouldn’t matter all that much in the eternal perspective.