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I don't want anything overtly sexual in texts, but just something to distinguish them from the sort of thing he'd send to his mother would be nice. I don't think you're being needy - I totally understand what you mean about maintaining the closeness in weekend only dating - but think it's unrealistic to hope that an undemonstrative unromatic man will send "miss you" texts. He's always been the same and to be honest I've tried to see the positive side in his 'style' too.I've 'been there, done that' with a man who was good on the words but whose actions never matched them, and I don't want that again, so I've tried to take comfort from what he does rather than what he says. I think it would be fine if we saw each other even once int he week,because then all the good stuff would still be there. Hi there, this is my take on the weekend only relationship, having been there myself.Thanks for your responses everyone, you've given me some things to think about.FWIW, having spent nearly all of yesterday with him, I definitely wouldn't class him as 'intimacy avoidant'!There is definitely a feeling of not wanting to 'spoil' our time together, not that there have been disagreements.Cabrinha - what you describe reminds of the situation when I was married and my husband worked away for periods.Especially when the man in question isn't exactly the last of the great romantics when it comes to phone calls/texting.We have lovely times together every weekend but don't meet during the week due to distance /work etc.
My DD is older though but still needs a fair bit of driving around and this should improve after the summer I hope.Anyway, I think the answer might be for me to lead the way a bit.After posting on Saturday night, he texted saying he was looking forward to seeing me the next day.I just feel that by the time we go through the week, we've lost so much of the closeness we had e previous weekend, and almost need to 'start again' the next time we meet.He texts me every day and we speak a couple of times in the week, but honestly, while he will always talk about his day, asks after mine etc (all of which is fine), I'd like Him to be a bit more forthcoming about whether he's missing me etc. I got really fecked off with it after a while and the relationship collapsed. You can say to him look I'm not happy with our pattern of contact and see what he says We've been together 4/5 months.Weekend trips are great, but they can also be a hassle to plan.So to save you the pain of pouring over Fodor's and Expedia, we picked out a romantic rendezvous point in every state in America.Perhaps if you can't sustain closeness, even though you're chit chatting each day, it's because you're simply not that close yet?Either because it's only been 5 months, or because he's not right for you.I didn't miss him as such, in fact I quite enjoyed the time on my own.However, we had been married for yonks which is where the difference is.