Women control dating
It stands to reason that since women have all of the power when it comes to dating, they get to pick and choose from men who get laid are alpha males with lantern jaws and six-pack abs.
Everybody else – the beta males, the socially awkward, the chubby, husky dudes, the symetrically challenged – they’re left holding the bag of dudes who aren’t exactly making the cover of People’s Sexiest Man shopping with their girlfriends and wives. ” I hear some of you cry, at which point we’re right back to the same issue as before: “the impossibly hot woman I want to date/sleep with won’t date .” So straight talk: societally accepted standards of beauty kind of suck.
And to be perfectly honest, people can be pretty damn shallow have.
They tend to believe that they deserve a smoking hottie, a perfect 10 regardless of their own looks, wealth, lifestyle or personality.
QED: all women want are hot assholes, not nice guys who may not be the social ideal. Ugly men do not get girlfriends or wives.” And yet somehow Patton Oswalt is happily married with a lovely daughter. For that matter, we can add Dennis Kucinich, Woody Allen, Henry Kissinger…
Look around and all you see are beautiful people fucking other beautiful people while wonderful – if less facially gifted – men are stuck home alone. In fact, the “ugly guy pulling hot women” trope is so well known that TVTropes has an entry on it. It’s the 21st century, a post-Third Wave Feminist era.
It’s not a real surprise to find out that a Nice Guy who doesn’t take care of his appearance and believes that he’s owed a girlfriend is having a hard time getting that 10 to give him her number.
Meanwhile he sees Studly Good Night go up, slap her on the ass, tell her obscene jokes and takes her home that night to fuck her until her eyes bleed.
Beauty standards as we’re taught in western culture are European features and bodies and skin that can only be achieved via money, surgery and lots and LOTS of Photoshop.
I’ve noticed that there’s a topic that comes up repeatedly when it comes to talking about dating issues, whether it’s about the problems with being a Nice Guy, online dating, or even just approaching new people: the idea that women hold all of the power in dating.
They are The Choosers, the gatekeepers to the Promised Land, cruel temptresses who taunt men by being attractive and yet unavailable.
There are many women who struggle to find dates, whether it’s because they’re too tall, too big, too whatever. This complaint translates as “the hot woman I want to fuck but won’t give me the time of day can get sex any time she wants.” Beyond that, the ability to get a sexual partner within a pre-set amount of time or with whatever suitable definition of “ease” might be isn’t exclusive to women.
Men have equal ability to find sexual partners as women do…